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The key for me was not pumping at all / not expressing more milk than needed. My suggestion would be to let her nurse until you have a let down and then pop her off and have your let down in a towel or bottle. Then put her back on. There's some controversy over block feeding -- I would just put my son back on the same side if he wanted to nurse again within 2 hours. Leaning back for let down helped a lot or even clamping down on the breast a little (like a fire hose!). He had a hard time mostly from weeks 4-8 but then my supply regulated and while at 5.5 months he still snarfs a little if I haven't nursed in a long time, it's fine. He only became a two side nurser (other than growth spurts) once my supply really regulated around 4m. Even now MOTN and morning feeds it's just one side and a deluge of milk!

I had the same issues with my first but over pumped and made things worse and it never really got under control. We had other issues too though and didn't nurse past 6 weeks (though I pumped and thanks to my oversupply got 40 plus oz a day).

As the baby gets bigger and as your supply adjusts it will get so much better. Hang in there!

Same issues here! My sweet girl is 10 days old and I'm having HUGE oversupply/forceful letdown issues. Unfortunately, I haven't got any extra advice for you - we're trying all of the same things that you mentioned - but just here to say you're not alone.
I didn't have this problem at all with my first, and I'm having trouble figuring out what to do with an all-day fussy/gassy baby. I've considered trying gripe water or colic tabs, but can't find enough info about if they're ok at this age.

Didn't read the above comments but this is what I did:
- pumped every morning for 10 min when we got up, the morning was my most "plentiful" letdown and doing this before that nursing session helped build my freezer stash for work and give her a break from the geyser! I'm sure it didn't help keep my supply down but when she was older 3-4 mo I weaned off the morning pump (okay, stopped cold turkey and got a plugged duct and should have weaned off!) and it went really well
- block feeding, I only did one side at a time and switched every 2 hrs or so, so if LO was cluster feeding she'd just get one side if she was going back to eat and it was less than 2 hrs
- gave her breaks if she was sort of fighting a fire hose so to speak and would use a burp cloth for the overflow
- side lying was a great position for her to pop on and off as needed and easier to catch the overflow

She ended up adjusting as she got older to love the spray! And I've eventually regulated a bit more. It's gotten to be a bonus that she's a super efficient nurser because she gets so much at once, she rarely nurses longer than 5min and has been that way for a while! It was definitely worth sticking with it, hang in there!

@SeptMomma12: LO rarely nursed longer than 15 min even at that age! Unless it was a nurse to sleep type situation or after I had just pumped she was just a super efficient eater. Trust the wet/dirty diapers and her weight gain

@SeptMomma12: oh yeah as a newborn R only nursed 10-15 mins after my milk came in. By 6 weeks it was 5-10 mins and he's mostly a 5 minute nurser. He was only 5 lbs when he was born and at 5 months he was 13.5 lbs so we are doing something right! He can also take a 6 oz bottle with a medium flow nipple in less than 5 mins. Just try to trust your body and keep working at it if it's worth it to you to keep going!

I don't have any advice that people above haven't already given but I sympathize. I have a fire hose on both sides, and that has been true since LO was born. She has gotten really good at gulping fast so she pretty much keeps up with it, and as a result the lactation consultant has measured that she is consuming a ton of milk in a very short time. Her feedings last like five minutes and she will fall asleep, and that's just one side. She has a ton of wet/poopy diapers (mostly yellow poop) and is gaining weight so we aren't worried about her health but it is frustrating when she is gulping air and cries from the pain of the gas bubbles in her stomach, or when she gets frustrated in between let-downs since she's so accustomed to the fire hose. Then we have more screaming. Lots of burping breaks helped, and always having a burp cloth handy to pop off and soak up the spray is essential. I also try not to do much expressing or pumping so I don't increase my supply even further but I am doing one bottle per day so we can keep her used to the bottle, and I usually pump 5 oz in like five minute or less, so that at least is a plus side.