do you feel very judged and unsupported as well?

I know all parents feel judged by their feeding choices. But I feel like the community of parents who choose to be vigilant about feeding their children healthy do get a lot of flack. And a lot of us choose to keep quiet about it. Even here on the boards that many think are very "crunchy".

We still pack our 22m's lunch for daycare even though it's provided because neither of us are happy with their choices. I think the teachers must think we're crazy going to "all that effort" and singling her out from the other kids. Well you know what? I've decided I don't care. There will be many many other instances in her life we will not let her do something just because her friends are doing it or their parents are allowing them. She might as well learn that lesson at a young age!

I'm not looking to start a debate on feeding choices. Or it's not big deal to serve a cupcake here and there. Just looking for support and offering support for those in "hiding"!