Dh went into the or at 730 this morning. It's after two and he's still in there. He has crohns and had a colostomy so they're hopefully getting rid of that and cutting out part of his colon.
I'm freaking out that it's taking so long!
Dh went into the or at 730 this morning. It's after two and he's still in there. He has crohns and had a colostomy so they're hopefully getting rid of that and cutting out part of his colon.
I'm freaking out that it's taking so long!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
Oh goodness! I'm sure everything is going just fine. I know exactly how you feel though. My husband had surgery in March and the doctor told us the procedure would take an hour. It took three! I was so stressed out.
coconut / 8299 posts
Sending you and your DH positive thoughts!!!! I would be stressed too. Hospital procedures are never fun.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
sending you my positive thoughts and juju, hope he recovers quickly!!
apricot / 483 posts
sending positive thoughts and prayers to your family - have they given you a round-about finish time?
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Thinking of you, @artbee. I'm sure it's stressful but he's in good hands. I hope he's in recovery soon for you!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Hope the surgery goes well!!! Sending good thoughts your way!
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
As you know, I've had the very same operation, so he's definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Thinking of you guys! I'm sure they are just taking their time and making sure everything is perfect! Hope he's in recovery ASAP!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Thank you so much everybody! All your positive thoughts worked- DH's surgery went well! It took longer than they thought it would because he had gained some weight and they had to get around all the fat.... ooops! We'll be started a diet together soon Most importantly for him the colostomy is finally gone. I'm sure he'll be excited once he finally realizes... I told him about 4 times today but he just kept asking me what the doctor said over and over, so I'm 100% sure he still has no clue. Now onto recovery!
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@artbee: yaaaay! I wanted to ask when I saw you were back but I didn't want to push it. So glad it went well!
pomegranate / 3388 posts
Great news! Surgery is incredibly stressful, so I would have been freaking out too. I'm sending my wishes for a speedy recovery!!
kiwi / 553 posts
Great news! I'm glad they could reverse the colostomy! That is such a hard thing to get used to (I'm a nurse and I teach people how to care for them). I'm happy everything worked out and wish him a quick and uneventful recovery!
grapefruit / 4006 posts
So glad to hear that the surgery went well!! Hope he feels better very soon.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
You girls are all so supportive! It really does help me to stress a little less after hearing all your kind words.
@Shimmer: immature question, but do you ever get poo'd on when helping change a bag? You're amazing for doing that job! Honestly, I do wish he got used to it and kept it. That way I wouldn't have to worry that the inflammation would come back and he'll need another surgery, or even worse cause colon cancer.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
hurray for a successful surgery!!! Hoping his recovery goes well!!!
persimmon / 1202 posts
Yay! I had a cousin go through something similar (if not the same) - it does not sound like an easy thing to live through. Wishing him a speedy recovery!
kiwi / 553 posts
@artbee: It's one of the glamorous parts of my job Yes, sometimes some poo does make its way onto me, but that's what gloves and soap/water are for! I find that some people take to it without a problem and others struggle with it regardless of how much instruction they get on how to care for it properly.
It's a body identity crisis, and since we were infants our poo came out of our bottoms - now we're asking people to change the mindset that they've been in for all of their lives and be okay with pooing in a bag. There are many young men and women who live full, fulfilling lives with a colostomy - but I wouldn't doubt that they struggled at some point with the very idea of what was happening to their bodies.
I hope the inflammation stays away so he doesn't need to have the colostomy placed again. Crohn's really sucks; I can't even begin to imagine. I have IBS and that's bad enough sometimes!
bananas / 9118 posts
So glad everything went well, you guys sure have been through enough lately. Hopefully you guys will both be feeling happier and healthier very soon!
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
@artbee: that is awesome!!! I'm so glad things are looking good for him. You have been through SO much, it's great to hear that he is on the road to recovery now.
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