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My LO wouldn't fully potty train while still in a diaper or a pull-up; which makes sense since as they understand it, the diaper is where you go to the bathroom. Went to undies and that was a game-changer. I think it's relatively theoretical while there is still a diaper on them 24/7; it gets real when that is removed. Maybe something to try.

@Modern Daisy: Definitely expect some messes at the beginning - it's a learning process and a HUGE shift for littles. I found it useful to carry a ziplock bag with a spare change of clothes in my car, and also in my bag when we were out and about. But, it was like night and day when we went from pull-ups to undies! Good luck!

@Modern Daisy: We did OCPT and only use pull-ups for nights and naps. H has only pooped in her panties once, and that was the third day of training. We lost that pair, but we haven't had any issues since then. I also think maybe you should drive around with a small potty in your car. We do and it's been a lifesaver, especially if H was scared of the potty in a store or it was just a port-o-potty.

Gosh, I would do a few things...

1. what kind of potty seat is it that he picked out? does he have the ability to have his feet flat on the floor while using it? If not, look into that, especially if he's pooping in a diaper while standing up. Could be that he is having trouble going on the seat you have.

2. I would also look at training pants that have a layer of PUL in them, rather than just plain underwear, if you think he's not really going to be motivated by having regular underwear.

3. I think he's doing great by going on timed intervals, that's a big step and maybe for now, that's what he is ready to do. I am not a fan of all or nothing approaches, they never motivate my son and he also doesn't respond to the traditional incentives...he has to do it on his own time.

@Modern Daisy: If you do read the book, don't be scared about her doom and gloom message about doing it in the exact right window. Good luck!