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in prep to TTC I plan to just take prenatals and stop drinking. I'd also get a physical.

I've started taking prenatals and really focusing on what I'm eating, as well as cutting down on the alcohol. That's also because it appears that I have a gallbladder issue that I'm hoping can be resolved with diet, but it might need more intervention. I'll need to figure that out with my doctor and if anything drastic needs to happen (ie having it removed), I would want that done before we TTC.

We did the regular round of checkups... one each with my regular doctor, GYN, eye doctor and dentist. I went on pre-natals and switched my other regular meds either to baby-safe versions or came off completely. I even stopped taking OTC drugs that I knew were issues. I also cut my caffeine intake way down.

Now that we're legitimately within the two-week wait period, I've also cut out the booze and I'm trying to eat in a reasonable manner.

That sounds like a lot, but it wasn't really a big deal. And I'd rather take care of it now then have to all of the sudden change everything if/when I turn up pregnant.

All of the above are all great suggestions! I'm trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle, cut back on alcohol, exercise more, and take prenatal vitamins. We also tried to mentally prepare too-- if that makes sense.

Right now, I have started taking prenatal vitamins, I have gotten off BC about a year ago, I already went to see my OB/GYN and she is expecting the next time I see her I will be pregnant (I hope *fingers crossed*). I'm getting my teeth taken care of by my dentist. I used to chart my temps but my dr said not to worry about that and to just look for EWCM (egg white cervical muscous) when I do plan to TTC. I trying to eat all the sushi and drink alcohol now since I won't be able to have it while pregnant. (Don't worry, I'm very far from a heavy drinker. I drink like once a month and if that. I just had two pina coladas this past weekend. Yum! ) I'm planning on buying Pre-seed lubricant since it's sperm friendly. Plus, it doesn't hurt to have it. I'm also buying those pregnancy strips and ovulation strips. I hear they are cheaper than those pregnancy tests. Oh, we are moving into a townhouse in December.

Yeah, I'm pretty much set. I don't think I'm forgetting anything. We plan to start TTC in November or December of this year so I'm ready!

So as of right now, I'm just trying to enjoy pre-TTC phase and my pina coladas!

I went off bc in April. I started temping at that point to try to figure out when we should *not* have sex until we started ttc.

Two months later I started taking prenatal vitamins and we started TTC shortly thereafter. I haven't changed my diet at all and don't appear to need to at this point. I have tried using opk's but haven't ever received a + result on them. It's very frustrating.

I talked to my gyn doc when I was in for a regular visit. She did blood work to make sure my thyroid was ok. She said we should continue what we're doing until we hit 9 months (I'll be 34) then I should make an appointment with an OB to look into things.

Ideally I'd like to lose about 30 lbs putting me in a more healthy weight range. I will also need to completely stop taking Humira and Methotrexate (for psoriasis) for three months before I can stop taking my BC. I'm scared and anxious that I will have a big flare up. I still remember how painful and uncomfortable I was before I started taking those meds. None of the medications (oral or topical) that i relied on to treat flares are pregnancy safe.

I've been taking prenatals for quite a while. When we really decide, we'll have to *really* be sure also because I have a IUD and that would need to be removed. I'd probably ask the doc at that time what else I should be doing. I definitely know I need to cut back on alcohol, and wouldn't mind losing 10 lbs or so but it isn't necessary (just heard it's harder to lose after, and I'd rather lose it than keep it!)

Wow, after reading some of these answers, I feel less prepared, haha! I've been pretty regular about going to the dentist, so I wasn't going to do anything special in that department (although I'll probably ask next time if everything looks okay teeth-wise for when I get pregnant), but I did just recently go have a physical and ask some questions. I'm going on pre-natals in less than a month (figure I'll just go through my current vitamins first), and I'm going to stay on BC until we decide to start trying (according to my doc, that's what I should do). I have been trying to lose weight and get a little more in shape, but that's not going too well, so... oh well.

My biggest concern that I have is that I have ITP (low platelet count) and I'm not sure how that will affect my pregnancy or giving birth. I've read that if you're platelet count is too low, you can't get an epidural (and I'm a wimp...). BUT I have an appointment next week to see a hematologist, so hopefully they'll be able to answer some of my questions.

I started taking pre-natals about 6 months before we started TTC and continued getting my routine dental cleaning, eye exams, and doctors visits (because TTC took a long time, I have had multiple dental visits while TTC!). Pre-TTC, I also had cataracts surgery (which I had been needing for some time).

When we were actually ready to TTC, I went off the pill (we had several friends that got pregnant RIGHT after going off the pill and we didn't want to pull the goalie until we were really ready).

Also (upon my doctor's advice/suggestion) I didn't cut out booze while TTC. I definitely cut back and didn't drink much during my TWW's I know that some people feel very strongly about this issue...and to each their own..... But, for me 8 months would have just been way too long and stressful a time to give up wine completely : )

@adira - Yeah, my doctor basically told me to take it easy during the TWW, but that I didn't need to cut out alcohol completely. I'm not a binge drinker or anything, but I like wine with dinner and we go out to dinner on weekends. She just said to stop drinking when I got a BFP (which, obviously I did!) My husband is a doc and completely supported this practice. I really think it's whatever you are comfortable with... I just felt enough pressure from TTC without taking wine out of the mix!

I thought I had posted on this already, but I guess not? ;P

I quit smoking (a 5 year bad, bad habit), I've been running mildly, I've given up alcohol (not hard, as I'm not a drinker), I just ordered the Rainbow Lite pre-natals and will start that later this week.

I also purchased, OPKs from Amazon and a Basal thermometer to start charting/temping.

I've also been trying to get a better work/life balance and "me" time to make sure that I don't overstress about other things in life.

Definitely read Taking Charge of Your Fertility - AND - What to Expect When you are Expecting. While the first may be an obvious choice read, I waited until I was pregnant to read What to Expect and was surprised how much of the book is applicable to TTC. Both books offer invaluable advice.