Hellobee Boards

I don't know if this is your style or not, but I really like the options that are available on spartina449.

I've been eyeing this one:

https://www.target.com/p/women-s-campbell-crossbody-bag-universal-thread-153/-/A-53138139

And here's a larger tote:

https://www.target.com/p/women-s-rowan-small-tote-handbag-universal-thread-153/-/A-53138294

And if you're interested in a backpack, this is cute:

https://www.target.com/p/rowan-soft-backpack-universal-thread-153-cognac/-/A-52931547

I have this and LOVE it. You can wear it cross body or on your arm. When worn cross body, the upper folds down. I have a couple of Logan and Lenora bags inside. One for my little's snacks and the other for wipes etc.

https://www.amazon.com/Foley-Corinna-City-Tote-Cognac/dp/B06XTTFCZ5/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1534340184&sr=8-10&keywords=foley+and+corinna+tote

I have one very similar to this one: https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2294153/rosetti-demi-zips-colorblock-crossbody-bag.jsp

I've had it for two years now and love it. Very small, I stuff a bag of snacks, a couple diapers, a small bag of wipes, chapstick and travel toothbrush in the main pocket. Coupons and receipts go in the middle pocket till I get around to cleaning it out. Cash and coins in the front pocket.

I lovvvvve having everything zipped shut so no matter what I'm doing, nothing falls out

I just bought this cheap bag at Old Navy for a trip:
https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=775576002&CAWELAID=120299900000366031&CAGPSPN=pla&CAAGID=36024990456&CATCI=aud-372956340918:pla-295285319999&tid=onpl000017&kwid=1&ap=7&gclid=CjwKCAjwns_bBRBCEiwA7AVGHqnMiIMR8FdCcBE3Gk1h6Uw9hSG2KfOamz48cdJa-5V59Bpwy7riGRoCuUcQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

and it's so versatile and simple & cute. I've gotten a ton of compliments on it too which is weird because it was only $20! haha

I LOOOVE my Coach crossbody bags and even have a mid-size diaper bag with crossbody adaptable strap. Since your youngest is still 14 months and I assume may still be in diapers, may I suggest the following option from Seraphine:

https://www.seraphine.com/en-us/seraphine-black-diaper-clutch.html?ranMID=42153&ranEAID=93xLBvPhAeE&ranSiteID=93xLBvPhAeE-PmPwmyO6HzQiRTKQ7fFOLw&utm_source=Rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Time+Inc+Brands&utm_content=1

It has a small changing space, enough room for a couple diapers , travel wipes, and a mini cream or two, as well as, a clutch that fits within to hold a wallet, lipstick, ID, keys, etc. It comes with an adjustable strap. One of my favorite "just going on a quick outing" crossbody/large clutch bags.