Oh my patience is wearing thin with our 3 year old right now! She refuses to eat the dinner I make, saying she's full, and then the dishes will not even be cleared and she says "I'm hungry I want a snack!" I have started to leave her plate on the counter and when this happens I offer to heat it up for her, but this causes a huge meltdown. My DH usually gives in (my girl can carry on for a LONG time, she's stubborn and he just can't take it.) This frustrates me so much, I want her to eat the good stuff and not the crap!

What do you do to make them eat their dinner?