I've seen several comments that soft-soles are way better than hard-soles for crawlers and early walkers. What is this about? Show me your evidence please
I've seen several comments that soft-soles are way better than hard-soles for crawlers and early walkers. What is this about? Show me your evidence please
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
I know, I'm really curious! LO isn't walking yet, but before I buy her shoes, I want to know!
cantaloupe / 6017 posts
http://patiented.aap.org/content2.aspx?aid=6900&refURL
I really like see Kai run smallers- they have a little rubber on the ball and heel, which helps with grip, but are mostly flexible.
They don't offer a lot of protection, but my daughter wears them walking on sharp gravel and is fine (it bothers her when she's barefoot, so they must help a little!)
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Minimalist styles are better for development but "firm sole" doesn't mean hard as a rock, either. These are second level walking shoes for kids who have been walking for months and they are still quite flexible while providing good support, protecting her feet, and allowing her to walk on grass and concrete and stumble around. We just let her go barefoot inside. They struggle to walk when their shoes are heavy and flexible
Eta: if you watch your LO walk when really young, they curl their toes like monkeys! It's really fun to see. Also watch the toenails-we had a few curl inwards and were tough to trim
GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts
The link above is obviously more useful to you, but I wanted to give an anecdote. We went to the park Tuesday and I forgot LO's shoes. So I let him walk around barefoot. I turned my head for a second and see him-- 20 months old!-- climbing up one of those chain rope grid ladder things. I move over that way to supervise more closely, and he climbed up to the very top! I was shocked. But I think being barefoot helped him to feel what he was climbing on.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
@redsmarties: I've already bought a bunch of shoes used and on the zullily toms sale
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@mrs sketchbook, maybe my shoes are what's holding me back on rope climbs. Hahahaha no....
bananas / 9227 posts
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
Loved smaller by see kai run (with soft soles) until he was a confident walker. I've seen kids try to walk in hard soles shoes and they trip a lot more.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
Loved the smaller by SKR when she was first learning to walk. I feel more comfortable now that she is walking and running in a harder sole, but still flexible. Esp. for at day care when kids are walking all over each other and are on the playground twice a day.
I still love SKR shoes for R! She has no issues with them and they are so cute. She goes barefoot when at home and even on the deck. I put shoes on her if she goes in the grass in case of ants.
honeydew / 7504 posts
I just went through this debate (in my head). We took D to Stride Rite to get him fitted for his first shoes (not walking). The girl there told us to just get hard-soled. Even though my gut was telling me he needed soft-soled, I went with her advice. But I kept feeling like he needed soft-soled. So I just ordered some Pedipeds Originals onsale. Already I can see he's more confident in them. But now I have 2 pairs of hard-soled shoes that he'll probably outgrow before he can wear them.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@Smurfette: SKR needs to have another awesome sale soon! I love the ones I bought for M during the last sale.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@lawbee11: Right? I bet they will this summer before the fall line comes out.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
@jetsa: When I said I hadn't bought *any* shoes, that's not true, haha. She has a pair of Toms from the HB classifieds, and a pair of adorable lace slip ons from Target.
@blackbird: Look at how flexible those are!
@winniebee: I've been looking at the Smaller shoes - after seeing so many recs, I might have to pick up a pair.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@redsmarties: do it! They are great for when K starts walking.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
@redsmarties: my child has a giant foot (size 4 at 8 months) but it looks like I'll have several hard soles pairs that won't get used. I'll be on the lookout for a sale on the smaller shoes as well.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
@jetsa: wow! We're in size 2 still- hoarding the 3s and 4s as I see them.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
@redsmarties: my child is giant, He's 23 pounds, the first thing everyone told us at birth was look at those giant hands and feet lol. If we were in 2's they might get used i've got 4-8 already, oops! Surely some of them will get used!
grapefruit / 4649 posts
Others have pointed out some good research, I thought I would share my experience. I have worked with several toddlers who were just learning to walk. With the hard/inflexible soles they seem to lack the strength to flex the shoe enough to navigate anything other than flat footed walking. When you walk up stairs your foot bends, when you catch your balance your foot bends etc. If you don't have the strength to bend the sole then it will be hard to handle those situations, especially as a new walker without life skills to fall back on.
coconut / 8279 posts
My son was an early walker and takes after his dad wearing through shoes, hitting the ground hard. I started him in soft soles when he started walking indoors (cruising) at 8 months. When he was walking unassisted at 11 months I started to get a more structured shoe that would keep his feet warm & protected, it was December in Boston.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
I used my common sense on this one, and took my son to a shoe store to have him properly fitted and measured. They suggested a flexible soled shoe, IRCC the brand was Stride Rite. It was important to me that he be able to wear the shoes indoors and outdoors and in weather conditions, so we opted for a rubber sole with velcro closures. The shoe was the lightest I could find and he did absolutely great. My son is three now and he wears athletic sneakers almost exclusively because they stay on his feet and he can wear them with socks.
We had to skip the Robeez soft soled shoes because they did not fit his thick feet, he'd get red marks from the elastics.
GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts
@blackbird: lol, I have never been able to do a rope climb! Come to think of it, the chain grid ladders used to freak me out too, lol! I guess he got that gene from someone else, haha
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
Okay so, when did you start consistently putting shoes in your LO? DD is 8 months, I usually just put socks on her when we go out but she is barefoot at home. She can pull up but doesn't do it often & doesn't "cruise". I have a few pair of shoes that were given to us but they are all hard sole. When did buying your LO a "proper" pair of shoes become a necessity?
honeydew / 7589 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: I didn't start putting her in shoes until she was cruising, around 11 months?
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: I have just started putting shoes (soft sole robeez) on c when we go out, at almost ten months. He is cruising at home but she is always barefoot inside. Otherwise she tries to eat the shoes anyway. I don't always even put then on when we got out, only f she might be standing up somewhere or if I want her to look "dressed".
kiwi / 673 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: LO didn't start wearing shoes consistently until about a year, when he was walking outside more. He'd been cruising for months, but we were mostly inside (cold weather), so he didn't need them. He still never wears shoes in the house, and has only needed two pairs at 1.5 years (one of those being sandals).
We started with moccasins (Minnetonka), then recently got a pair of soft-soled, closed-toe sandals for summer. They're just BRU brand, but they're cute and durable.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
You guys might be surprised how big your kids' feets are. At a year, E wears size 5's (i had her fitted at Stride Rite). I had no idea her feet were that big! But she explained that when they step down, the foot stretches, and the insoles pop out and tell you when to get them new shoes.
@mrs sunshine, i didn't even bother until she was walking around the house and wanted to walk in public places. We took her to dinner one evening (sans shoes) and realized we couldn't set her down and it pissed her off. E was full on walking at 10 months, though, but it was winter, so it wasn't an issue until April
cantaloupe / 6017 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: I only started putting her in them regular when she wanted to practice walking outside (and after all the snow melted....). Indoors (or wherever we can (like in the park on the grass) she is still barefoot. We used robeez or zutano booties for warmth during the winter pre cruising
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: I didn't put shoes on R regularly until she was walking for a couple weeks. Socks at day care abs barefoot at home. Shoes were rare, mostly for pictures.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
@Foodnerd81: @LittleFox: @blackbird: @Silva: @Smurfette: thanks guys! I won't worry about getting her fitted until she starts walking!
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