So I want to start solids with Xander next week (WTF!) and we want to do it at dinner time because that's the only meal we have with him during the day. BUT some days (MOST days), Xander refuses to go down for his third nap at daycare, which means he ends up napping as soon as he gets in the car (or as soon as we get home).

My PLAN was to nurse as soon as we get home (5:30), then do dinner & solids at 6:30, and in bed by 7:30. BUT if he falls asleep on the way home or needs a nap when we get home, what should I do? Just skip solids that day? Nurse at 6:30, solids at 7:00/7:30, bed by 8:30? Just not let him nap???