As a spin-off of the recent threads about telling family and friends about IF struggles, I wanted to ask for some advice about my brother and SIL. They have been open about wanting kids and bought a big house in the suburbs last year. She is 34, and he is 33. No announcements yet. I know it hasn't been too long, but I'm assuming they are having some difficulty conceiving. They haven't said anything to anyone yet about it though. The only thing I have done is be very clear with my mom that she needs to not make *any* mention of wanting more grandkids around them. Other than that, is there anything I can do if they haven't said anything to us? I want to be supportive if they are having trouble, but obviously this is a private issue for them right now or they would have said something. Thanks for any advice!