OMG I am freaking out! A doesn't like being swaddled anymore, he just fights and fights to get his arms out and if I don't get it super, super tight he gets out and I have to redo it until he falls asleep.

The problem is that he doesn't seem ready not to be swaddled, either. I successfully got him to sleep by rocking him in the rocking chair in his sleep sack with arms out, but as soon as I laid him down he was awake. Now he has been crying for 20 minutes. He will almost fall asleep and then, boom...screaming.

I really have no plan for how to go about this. I don't want to buy another swaddle product, I really want to just try and transition him, but I am freaking out that the transition is going to be too much for me to handle (lots of stress, no sleep, and getting no school work done).

Is it worth trying for a few days to see if he improves and reassess if it doesn't seem to be working? Should I just try naps first and then move on to night sleep after he seems better with it? Help!