Nothing is sure yet, but it looks like there is a very good chance I will be going back to work soon. LO is 18 mo now. She will go to daycare full time.

I am freaking out.

She's very outgoing and is generally pretty good with (female) strangers so I think once she is used to it, she'll actually really love getting to play with other kids all day. But I think the transition will be rough. She is a mama's girl through and through and the times when I've had to leave her for more than an hour or two have resulted in stage 5 clinging for a while thereafter. And when she anticipates leaving me (like when DH puts her to bed) she sobs.

Any tips for how to make the transition smoother for her? I know kids are resilient and regardless, she will be okay and get over it. But I have this pit of my stomach fear that she's going to think I'm abandoning her and be miserable even when she's with me worrying about me leaving her more. Ugh.