i'm still tying to avoid clomid, but i've had the conversation with my dr and she said before starting on clomid, she would want to do a SE on DH. i think it's pretty obvious that i have an issue (last cycle was over 90 days, never o'ed), and while it's possible DH has a problem, we don't have any reason to think that. other people i know have just started clomid, if they're not o'ing, without their SO being tested.

if you've taken clomid, did your SO have any testing done first or was it just confirmed that you weren't o'ing? how did your SO feel about it? if you don't mind sharing- did he make his sample at home and bring it in or did he do it in the office?