DD is three months old - I have been breastfeeding fairly successfully which is great. We supplemented for the first few weeks, and DH always fed her. She also took a bottle a day in the early weeks from DH while I slept in.

We got comfortable and stopped doing a bottle a day, only doing it when needed - when someone would watch her for a couple hours, or if we were out and about. Other family members, who DD sees at most once a week, are able to give her a bottle.

I've left DD with DH a few times a week for the last few weeks and it's been rough. She won't take a bottle, she screams and angry cries, and then she falls asleep after a while. If he's lucky she will maybe take .5-1 oz. He tries feeding her 2-3 hours after her last feeding, when she's happy, different positions, sitting/walking, etc. it very rarely works.

This is so frustrating because he was the first one to successfully give her bottles! And I know it's wearing on him. And part of me feels almost guilty or responsible - could it be because I breastfeed her and she's holding out? I need her to take bottles from DH for my sanity so I can get out. Also I will be traveling for work. And also it's creating a lot of stress in our household.

I return to work next week and DH will watch her one day a week (she'll also go to a day care three days, and be watched by my sister one day a week.)

I am so stressed. Should I just relax - she'll figure it out and eat? Should I switch to EP so that it avoids confusion for her? Any tricks to make it work better? We had one great day last week where she took two bottles from him and finished them but not much luck since.