hi everyone!

this is my first cycle after getting off the pill so I'm still trying to figure everything out. I don't want to start actually charting/temping yet because I know I'll drive myself crazy with it, but I've been trying to pay closer attention to things like CM anyway.

here's the tmi part....I can't really tell the difference btw CM and semen. dh always would come inside me (I warned it was tmi!!) but I've been waiting longer than usual to pee after BDing, with the result that I just in general feel a lot "wetter" than usual. I've read some stuff online about how to tell the difference btw the too, but not the answer to one of my main questions--how long does semen actually take to leak out all the way? if I feel wet on and off the day after dtd, is that still the semen or is that CM?

gah I'm embarassed to actually be asking this, but I'm so confused!