...he only drives "my" vehicle once every week or two but always fills it up with gas, even if it's half full so I have to fill it less.
What does your SO do that shows they care?
...he only drives "my" vehicle once every week or two but always fills it up with gas, even if it's half full so I have to fill it less.
What does your SO do that shows they care?
pomegranate / 3779 posts
My SO entertained LO for a few hours so I could work on my craft project.
grapefruit / 4997 posts
DH likes to wash all the bottles at night and reminds me to leave it for him. I think it makes him feel more involved with the childcare activities? LOL (he comes home right before dinner M-F).
pomelo / 5607 posts
He's been handling all the paperwork and stressful parts of buying this house. I know I *could* figure it all out, but it's so confusing and overwhelming for me. I think it's mostly just because he's a control freak about these things so he needs to do it himself, but he also doesn't make me feel bad for not understanding half of it.
nectarine / 2636 posts
My DH picked up and finished cooking dinner for us because I was too tired to, being 40w3d pregnant. And he rubbed my feet and legs a bunch.
grapefruit / 4582 posts
@abbydabbydoodlebug: Hang in there mama! Glad you got some good rubbings - you deserve them
Oh, just the usual "come home and do everything while I sit around like a useless bump on a log pregnant wife" night over here, and I love him for it
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@luckypenny: hahaha that is exactly my husband too! I don't really do many domestic duties at all now that I'm in school FT and work PT.
DH has been SO supportive of me going back to finish school, to the point that he does the dishes every day, does the laundry every weekend, and assumes all daddy-son responsibilities the entire weekend so I can focus 100% on homework. He is a HUGE blessing in my life and I couldn't do this without him
honeydew / 7295 posts
He played lovingly at home with our son while I went to zumba class with a friend.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Um, he calls every night when he gets out of work to let me know he's on his way home, and tonight when I told him I'd had a really long day he brought home 3 bottles of wine and a handle of scotch?
clementine / 984 posts
DH postponed dinner (he really likes the meal we were making tonight and gets VERY hungry when he doesn't eat on time) because he knew I wanted to go swimming and just float a little since I'm 37 weeks and feel huge. So we prepped our food, then left the house for an hour and a half before coming home to make dinner. I could tell he was starving, but he never said a word and just let me hang out in the pool until I decided to leave.
persimmon / 1328 posts
He cleaned the kitchen top to bottom tonight as I watched Grey's Anatomy on Netflix
apricot / 461 posts
He really engaged in an intimate conversation I initiated about our emotional connection (or lack thereof recently). He really opened up. And then we got busy!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
He took both kids to go pick up dinner with him and let me relax by myself at home last night. Haven't been alone without my baby since she was born a couple of months ago, even just for a few minutes.
pomegranate / 3759 posts
He has been looking after our whiney toddler while I settle in with baby. Right now the toddler is WAY more work!
bananas / 9227 posts
He wakes up extra early to light up the fireplace so it's nice and cozy when DD and I wake up.
pear / 1743 posts
He ran errands after work, brought home dinner and did some odd jobs that were bugging me before bed. He's also arranged to go into work late on Monday so that he can take my car to have our capsule installed... Just at the point I can't deal with things anymore LOL.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
It is his birthday today!! I can't wait to see him when he gets home tonight.
GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
He makes me breakfast and lunch everyday and helps me get out of the house in the mornings. I don't know what I'd do without him!
cantaloupe / 6885 posts
He spent the morning before he went OOT for work cleaning and making sure LO was in a good mood so Id have as easy a time as possible flying solo. Since he's been gone he's been checking in frequently even though he's working 24/7. I that man
watermelon / 14467 posts
He didn't get mad when I got up late (I got mad yesterday when he did). Instead, he entertained LO and our dog so I could take a long enough shower to shave my legs.
Love that guy.
nectarine / 2771 posts
He preps the following night's dinner every night and insists that I relax and watch tv
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
He goes to get me Starbucks most mornings while I pump...he's pretty much the best
cantaloupe / 6017 posts
Our kid woke up at 5 AM this morning. I tried to nurse her back to sleep but she wasn't having it. He got up and said he'd play with her for a bit.
I woke up at 7:30, and she was back asleep! I"m eating my breakfast and drinking my coffee without a baby! Holy Sh*t!
And he has to go to work all day! I feel kind of bad about all the passive aggressive jabs I've been making this week (its been a rough one).
grapefruit / 4089 posts
He takes care of everything to do with our vehicles. My battery just pooped out on my car, so he jumped it and then drove it to work (left me his truck) so that he could get it replaced for me. My car is always brushed free of snow and scraped in the mornings, and the driveway is clear. This means a lot to me in -30*C weather!
watermelon / 14206 posts
Cause yesterday he chased down the suv that did a hit and run on our mailbox. He got their lisence plate and called the sheriff. If it were just me at home yesterday I wouldn't have chased him down like that lol.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
I'm always saying how I feel like a solo parent because I do literally everything around here on my own, even when he's home. I have been bummed because he has been working a lot lately too but yesterday he left work an hour early, came home, took care of DD while I made dinner & cleaned the kitchen (something I have never ever seen him do) while I put DD down for bed. He really went out of his way to make sure all 3 of us got to maximize our time together while he was home. It was really nice.
persimmon / 1165 posts
He started my car when he left the house this morning so it would be toasty warm for me and the boys when we left for daycare and work.
Last night, he handled making bottles and meal prep for today while I went to the gym.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
He packed my lunch today, and he never forgets the little things like separating the mustard so my sandwich doesnt get soggy.
papaya / 10473 posts
He got up with C so I could get ready for work. I walked out of the bedroom to see that he had made C a great breakfast, and they were playing on the floor I love how hard he makes our baby laugh!
kiwi / 673 posts
He got up with LO during her second MOTN waking so I could get a little extra sleep. He has a really bad stomach and missed sleep takes a toll on him, so I always appreciate when he does this!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@Dandelion: People are so rude. How do you not stop if you hit someone's mail box?
watermelon / 14206 posts
@Smurfette: It was a pizza delivery guy! He slid off the road, cause of the ice (thankfully, he hit the mailbox and didn't end up down the ditch behind it)...but he was training someone too! Why in the world would pizza hut train someone on an icy day??
grapefruit / 4085 posts
When he comes home from work today he's going to take M out so I can get some writing done. I usually do it at night but was so exhausted last night that I went to bed early. And tonight's out since I have an orchestra rehearsal in the city and won't get home til 11:30!
papaya / 10343 posts
Even though he has to commute to work every morning and I work at home, he gets up 15 minutes early to take care of all of our pets so I can sleep an extra 30 minutes, every day.
eggplant / 11716 posts
I love him every day. But even more since having LO. But I love him because I honestly don't think I could have picked a better person in this world to have a baby with.
He does (almost) everything 50% (changing diapers, feeding LO, dressing LO, night time wakings). After reading these boards I realize a lot of husbands don't naturally do those things, and while I totally expect a father to do half the parenting, it's nice to not have to convince someone to want to do it.
Anyway. As I said...I love him even more after seeing how amazing he is with LO.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@Dandelion: Did you call Pizza Hut?
@MrBee: Thanks!
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