LO's third birthday party is this weekend! Yay! This is our first big party with invitations to friends at daycare, etc. so we are excited...but, we have so many people who have not RSVPed.

The deadline was last Sunday and I gave out invites a month ago.

I invited the 18 kids in her class and of those, I have gotten 5 yes responses and nothing from the other 13 people. I am not sure if it is safe to assume they are not coming or hedge my bets. I am hoping to order some extra food and make some extra treat bags and crossing my fingers?

What would you do in this situation? Most of these parents I see at school but don't have numbers for so there is no way to track them down even if I wanted to.

In your experience, do people who don't bother to RSVP show up or not?