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@Arden: We ARE cycle twins! I'm 15 DPO as well, two negative FRER's, AF was due today. Are you temping?
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No, but if this isn't our cycle I might start. I was hoping I wouldn't have too.
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Yaaaaa, temp finally went up, thank you ladies for getting me through the 'waiting to O' stress! Now I get to go though the TWW stress, ha! Is it weird that I'm a little bit happy about that? We BD for the last 6 days so all bases are covered so now....I wait.
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BFN this morning. I know it's still early but I'm bummed.
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@sslm:
What DPO are you at?
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@Trailmix: Yah!!!
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Oh my gooosh, so much excitement today in this thread!!! Hang in there everyone! @sslm: You're not out yet!
@Arden: this is your first cycle TTC, right? Hang in there my friend
I know it's hard when you want it to happen right away, but it WILL happen!@Trailmix: YAY!!!! What's your new POAS day?
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@Smurfette: I'm 11 dpo. Won't test now until Monday!
Good thing my weekend is busy!@Trailmix: Wohoo!!!!!
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@Trailmix - yayy! I used OPKs every now and then, but I always found that my results were hard to read (I used those cheapie strips). For me, temping was a lot easier, and after I generally knew the time that I would normally O each cycle, I would just make sure that we BD every other day before and just after O.
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@Trailmix: Yay for O!!!
@sslm: I tested this morning, and also got a BFN. Sigh.
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@sslm and @Alivoo01 Remember, it's not over until diablo shows!
@Jojogirl Sorry this is late but I was glad to read that your procedure went well and hopefully July will be your month!
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@Trailmix: Thanks
hope so too!
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@Trailmix: I know
but I'm also spotting today so not feeling great about my chances!!!
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@Alivoo01: ugh! Sorry! How many dpo?
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CD36 no AF and only have one cheapie test left so I'm not in a hurry to take it.
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@sslm: I'm just not feeling it either, and I feel body is gearing up for diablo to arrive (should be this coming Monday). I'm 11 DPO, and very discouraged. I think we did everything correctly this month so that doesn't help. Last month, I misunderstood when I O based on the OPK so I was okay.
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@Alivoo01: we can be pessimistic together! Haha! I'm expecting AF Monday as well. I'll probably hold of testing again until then. I ony have 3 tests left!!!!
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@sslm: I'm sorry to hear about the BFN
@Trailmix: Hooray!!
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@sslm: @sslm: Fingers crossed diablo doesn't show up for either of you!!
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@sslm: I have a few tests remaining, but like you, I won't be testing again till Monday if AF doesn't show. It's heartbreaking to see only 1 line. Hopefully, it'll stay away for both of us!
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@Alivoo01: @sslm: I also tested this morning....BFN
Diablo is also scheduled for Monday. Hopefully out of the three of us, someone gets that good news and it doesn't show. I'm really starting to think that I'm out for the month however!
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@mrsdoily: @sslm: I hope one of us gets a BFP also, but like I mentioned earlier, I'm not feeling it this month.
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@mrsdoily: I really hope someone gets a positive!!!!
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I hope all THREE of you get positives!!!
Question: Do you guys BD the day your temp goes up? I'm pretty sure I've read you're supposed to the day after O just in case but I think I also read that by the time your temp goes up, it's too late so...now I'm confused. Temp has been rising for last 4 days (slowly) and i didnt get a positive OPK so I'm really not sure of the exact O date...basically trying to decide whether to BD one last time tonight. We've don't it the last 6 days in a row and I'm ready to be done but I'm willing to take one for the team if it increases the chances of conceiving...anyone's thoughts?
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So since it looks like this thread needs some good news...
Y'ALL. I got a really faint BFP this morning (today is 9dpo)!!!!!!!!! Then I held my pee from lunch until I got home from work and it was definitely darker than this morning. Oh my gosh!!!
I'm subbing at a daycare for the summer until school starts again and usually I'm in the 5-6 year old class. Well today, they put me in the toddler room! Definitely couldn't get the BFP out of my head haha
DH works early tomorrow morning, so I think I'm going to give him a Father's Day card on Sunday and then show him a (fingers crossed!) digital BFP! But then again, I might tell him tonight if I can't keep it in!
AHHH!
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@lilteacherbee: Congrats!! Yay!!!
Update for me: BFN this morning
Boo. It also looks like I'm going to be out the next few months. DH is having an existential meltdown and wants to pause on the TTC for the next few months. He thought he was ready for kids but now he is terrified and wants to bring the goalie back into the game. Since it takes two to make a baby.....well, I guess it's on hold until he gets over his freakout. I'm going to give him some space for now, but eventually we are going to have to have the frank talk about TTC and the fact that it could take us a while to get that BFP and keep the pregnancy all the way through. I think after the 3 miscarriages I had early in our relationship (all three were unplanned, accidental pregnancies), he's scared that it will happen again and he knows how much it tore me up each time. We shall see. I still fully intend on keeping up on my charting just to have that information and to check in on you gals, because y'all have been the best!
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@lilteacherbee: Oh wow that's great!! Congrats!!!
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@lilteacherbee: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
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@mrsdoily: wow, 3 MC's !!!! that's really sad. Hang in there. he'll be back on board before you know it, i promise.
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@lilteacherbee: A Fathers Day BFP!! How awesome! Congratulations!!!
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@Beetones: Thank you. I know he will be. We are among the first of our friends to get married (actually like the 3rd out of 12 of us that were close in college) and none of us have children yet either. I think that he is afraid once we have kids, we are leaving the rest of our friends behind and things will be completely different, which they will be, but in a good way. He just turned 28 and how that he's closer to 30 than to 20, I think he's realizing that we are getting older and are growing up. I'll just be patient and use this time to beef up my chart and lose those 30 pounds that are sticking around.
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@mrsdoily: Atta girl!!! that's the spirit.
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@mrsdoily: @Crisark: @Beetones: @oliviaoblivia: Thank you!!!!
@mrsdoily: I think you have a great attitude! I'm sure it really sucks and you're disappointed, but hopefully, this is just a little scare for him and he'll be ready again in no time!
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@lilteacherbee: EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Congratulations!
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@mrsdoily: Sorry! I like your attitude and I hope he is ready soon!
@lilteacherbee: Congrats!! Happy and healthy 9 months!
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@lilteacherbee: Congratulations!!! Such good news!
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@lilteacherbee: wohoo!!! congrats!!
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So... AF is a day late now. That's unusual for me, my cycles are usually very dependable. But I'm still getting a BFN. This sucks.
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@lilteacherbee: Congratulations!
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@Arden: Sorry
I'm 18DPO and got another negative tonight. So, I can relate.
I'm apparently gonna have another long cycle this month. This is CD36 for me too.
I'm super frustrated.
Hang in there!
What DPO are you at?
I know it's hard when you want it to happen right away, but it WILL happen!
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