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Ugh, I'm so sorry. I totally know that feeling. You WILL laugh about it someday! But seriously...when DH had to go on a business trip the DAY I got a positive OPK, I cried.

It happens to the best of us honey! I'm sorry. It really does suck.

@Snowdrop: lol @ TShirt

I agree with the others, we've a been there!!! Totally normal, and one day, laughable. It really sucks to feel like your entire month is based on a single moment. ::hugs::

I did this yesterday and we aren't even actively TTC. I just wanted to see if we even could make a baby naturally.

DH had a week long business trip turned 2 week long business trip in the middle of the very first cycle that we started trying. The first cycle, when the timing wouldn't have even been perfect if we'd conceived. I considered, briefly, flying across the country for the weekend. And cried about it a little. Because we missed the first chance after we pulled the goalie. Crazy town, population, me.

So yeah I can understand.

@HolisticMama: @Foodnerd81: + me

Crazy Town Population: 3

We should get jackets.

Yep! Been there, done that. The first month we TTC, I had to go on a work trip the day I ovulated. We DTD two days before, and we were going to on the morning I had to leave, but DH didn't feel well. I sobbed. I was a wreck, and DH was so, so confused, because he thought we were starting off slowly. My emotions missed that memo

Crazytown has a bigger population than you think

@swedishfish: hugs to you too, Mama!

Hugs. Yeah, I've been through it. Sadly, I can't show much emotion when we miss an opportunity because I don't want to add more stress to DH. He has had trouble producing a sample for an IUI and all I have to be is supportive. Luckily, our next IUI will involve freezing his sperm ahead of time so if he has trouble providing a fresh sample, we can use the back up sperm in the freezer. It's so hard taking all the meds for IUI and to find out we have to wait til next month. It is what it is. IF is so hard. All I can do is hope that it will be next month. This is going to be our last IUI before going to IVF, so I'm really hopeful that 2014 will be our year.

I've totally done that. Once I cried like a crazy person, we got in a fight, he said let's dtd, and then I was worried that our baby was conceived in a fit of crazy. (Yeah, it wasn't). Hang in there!

You are definitely not alone! I've totally cried when the hubby couldn't BD three days in a row for me, I was certain it was the end of the world. But then I accepted that every other day is fine and realized I was over-reacting a bit. But yea, when you're ready to get pregnant, the tears will flow!!! Hugs to you!!