Hi all. I have a friend who has recently unexpectedly lost her husband. She has two kids aged 6 and 2. She has asked for some advice on what she needs to be doing next?

The funeral has come and gone, it's the life stuff, the setting things up for living without him that is overwhelming. What are things she needs to make sure she has in place? People and institutions she should call that she maybe hasn't yet? She wants to make sure she doesn't miss anything important but understandably she is having trouble focusing.

Also, advice from anyone who has lost a parent at a young age would be appreciated.