I'm currently sending DS to an unlicensed daycare (she just watches a few kids and we knew her through my parents). Yesterday at pick-up she said she just wanted to remind me that since she's not licensed I can't claim daycare on my taxes. Is that how it typically works for unlicensed daycares?

I'm wondering if she is just telling me that because she is not claiming all the income I have paid her for daycare this past year.