nectarine / 2436 posts
@Crystal: I am so, so sorry. You got so far. But now you know you can get pregnant, this is a good thing.
I know nothing can make you feel much better now... Just know you have a community of support. xoxo thinking of you
pomegranate / 3105 posts
Cyrstal I'm so sorry about this - I had the same thing. We lost our first pregnancy early on but we got pregnant the next cycle. No matter what - it's devastating - but we're all here for you.
kiwi / 735 posts
Oh dear. I am so sorry for your loss! That super sucks!! Take it easy, treat yo self and all that.
pomegranate / 3921 posts
I am completely heartbroken for you. I know there's nothing I can say to make it any better, but I'm thinking of you and praying for you guys. Be easy on yourself, lady. I'm so, so sorry.
apricot / 288 posts
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling at this time. You and your husband are in my prayers for healing and peace at this time
nectarine / 2433 posts
@Crystal: I am so sorry you are going through this after such a trying journey. If you are having a D and C please consider having the testing done to the and determine the cause. This may be helpful for the RE down the line.
kiwi / 545 posts
I'm so sorry I, too, had a loss after battling infertility. Hugs to you - take care of yourself
kiwi / 689 posts
@Crystal: I'm so sorry for what you are going through. It must be the most difficult thing to face. Thinking of you
honeydew / 7968 posts
We lost ours around 9 weeks but didn't find out until after 12. The worst feeling ever. Praying u have a good support system around u and that u get your rainbow baby soon!
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Crystal: Oh, I'm so so sorry. My heart breaks for you.
kiwi / 635 posts
I am so so sorry crystal.. My heart breaks for you and your husband. I remember my second miscarriage was very difficult to go through- much more than the first. There was more hurt and more why's and more time needed to heal...
As others said please be kind to yourself and let yourself feel hurt anger etc as it is all a part of grieving and healing.
I hope as time goes by you can take hope and feel strengthened that many of us with multiple losses have gone on to have healthy babes. It's so hard now but it will all be worth it one day soon!!
Again I am so sorry and my heart goes out to you and your family ️
grapefruit / 4028 posts
So, my dr is on vacation til Wednesday, which is they are hoping they MIGHT be able to fit me in that day. Because he owns a private practice, and even though he has an exchange with a rotation of emergency Drs, no other doctor can do the procedure for me.
His nurses are on vacation as well. The front office staff called him and he suggested I go to planned parenthood if I was too impatient to wait.
In furious they don't have a plan in place to accommodate for this.
We're heading back to the ER.
pear / 1881 posts
I'm SO sorry and angry this is happening to you! I remember you from our IF boards and was elated you moved on. Let yourself process this and feel the emotions and know we are here for you.
As far as your dr., that would piss me off and I would find somewhere else to go (now and in the future)...
grapefruit / 4028 posts
For those that have had a D&C, is wednesday unreasonable? It feels like it, but I know I'm emotional.
pomelo / 5084 posts
@Crystal: Yes, I think it's unreasonable. I havent had one but my good friend did and they had her in the day after she found out, no matter what appointments they had to move. Not liking your doctor right now ...
grapefruit / 4028 posts
@wrkbrk: I asked them what they'd do if they had a pregnant patient to into labor- make THEM wait til Wednesday? They said it's a different situation, so he's the only one that can do it.
I can't believe they suggested I go to PP. I have nothing against PP, but I do have something against recommending it when I have great insurance to take care of me for emergencies like this.
kiwi / 585 posts
@Crystal: even if from a medical stand point that is reasonable, it is still unreasonable for your emotional wellbeing. I hope that you find a better solution. Your doctor sounds like a real a$$ in this situation. I particularly love that they "might" fit you in on Wednesday.
clementine / 849 posts
I am so heartbroken and furious for you. Know we are all virtually holding your hand and are here for you. Wishing you peace my friend
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