LO turns 1 on April 18. DH and I will be going out of town April 28 - May 2. LO will stay with my in-laws.
I'm currently pumping at work twice a day, and nursing LO at lunchtime as well. LO also still wakes up 1-3 times per night and nurses. I'm very worried about ...
1. weaning from pumping at work (want to be done close to the 1 year mark)
2. the trip out of town not completely killing my supply, because I'd love to continue nursing LO morning and at bedtime for a few months past 1 year
3. leaving LO with my in-laws overnight for several nights in a row when he still eats overnight
4. LO doesn't eat set meals of solid foods yet, but we need to get a schedule down and set amounts before leaving him in the care of my in-laws
5. I still nurse LO at bedtime. We do bath, lotion, jammies, story, boob, sleep. Obviously my in-laws can't do the boob part I should probably switch this up right?

What issue do I tackle first? I'm stressing! Bedtime routine? Food/solids? Night weaning? Eliminating a day feeding? Reducing my pumping at work? I feel like I might need to pump ahead to build a little freezer stash for our trip out of town, but that conflicts with weaning!

Calm me down bees!