I read a quote yesterday:

"When children press your buttons they are not responsible for the buttons that are there."
- Dr. Louise Porter
"Our buttons are our reliable guide to what we need to deal with in our own journey to wholeness."

What are your "buttons", and how to you stay calm and ride it when your LOs pushes them? I need advice on how to stay calm, not get angry, and handle it calmly and correctly. For me it is a forever (losing) battle.