I haven't been posting long but I've been lurking either here or on wedding bee for about 5 years now. When I'm on my computer at night, my husband always asks me "are you being a bee?" And he'll ask what level I'm at 
What does your spouse/OH think of your presence on Hellobee?
grapefruit / 4355 posts
He just kind of chuckles at it all. I refer to them as the baby boards so he will definitely ask me if I am reading baby boards when I am on my phone.
pomegranate / 3393 posts
He's not too aware of it. Like he knows I post on what we call "the parenting board" or "the mommy board", but I don't think he could say what it's called, or what I post about, etc.
I definitely show him funny stuff from here sometimes, though!
honeydew / 7622 posts
He tells me to go ask my internet friends if we are stumped with something DD related. He thinks it's a great source for information and support.
nectarine / 2148 posts
He will ask if I'm on my boards. Lol. But, he thinks some of it is a good idea. Like the community support I had during my infertility period. But he also thinks some of it is ridiculous.. But that is also me sharing selective stories
pear / 1521 posts
He wanted to know my username at one point (out of curiosity of what I picked, not to look me up) but still I was like no way! Not that he couldn't easily find it on my computer/phone
pomelo / 5607 posts
He thinks it's weird that I spend so much time on here (and spend money for gold), but he doesn't care much. He doesn't ask about it really. The only time it comes up is if I bring up something I've read to get his opinion.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
He says I spend too much time on here. Sometimes he'll ask me what the baby blog says about something we're deciding.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I've been on here (and wedding bee) for almost 6 years, so he's used to it. He sometimes asks about bees, and he really liked that I had an outlet for my crazy when we were TTC
honeydew / 7230 posts
He teases me and says my internet friends are really 50 year old men who have stolen baby pics from other people on the Internet and are catfishing me.
pear / 1521 posts
@Eko: @lovehoneybee: I definitely think it's a wonderful outlet when TTC and I can imagine a lot of men appreciate not having to get so technical about WCM and stuff like that
@twodoghouse: ha!
honeydew / 7622 posts
@twodoghouse: ha! Sometimes I wonder. That's why I like our super secret Mar 15 Moms fb group ;).
nectarine / 2951 posts
@twodoghouse: lol! My husband also thinks that everyone isn't who they say they are!
pomelo / 5084 posts
@petitenoisette: If we are talking about a new product or parenting theory, DW will say, can you get on and ask your bees?
pomegranate / 3895 posts
@twodoghouse: Ha! My husband says the same thing! Or if I come out saying something he views as out of the norm he will ask if I read it on my blog.
honeydew / 7230 posts
@youboots: @Alba4: @LBee: I've exchanged Christmas cards with HB ladies and he's like "that old man is very committed to this ruse..." I know he's just joking, but it does make you wonder sometimes...
Spoiler alert: I am not a 50 year old man. I promise!
pear / 1503 posts
DH calls HB my "bitch blogs." I assume because he thinks we are all here complaining about our husbands, not that the ladies on here are all bitches. He probably thinks I'm on here too much, but he spends so much time in front of his computer/with his iPhone that he shouldn't judge. He has grudgingly acknowledged that I've gotten good advice on here.
clementine / 955 posts
@twodoghouse: that is hilarious! Your DH sounds like a friend of mine. Love the cartoon too.
pomegranate / 3895 posts
@twodoghouse: We're insta friends so I'm assuming you aren't really intense at your ruse and aren't utilizing some weird rent a twin system for your adorable pictures.
coconut / 8472 posts
@twodoghouse: If you were really an old man, your Instagram would be the most amazing deception ever, lol
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
@LBee: haha my husband always asks me if I pick things up from hellobee.
eggplant / 11861 posts
He knows of it and kinda gets it, when we have a question about DD he will say ask those women on that website
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
He occasionally tells me to get off hellobee (jokingly) or he asks if I double checked with yall or got a certain idea or opinion from you guys but otherwise he doesn't say much.
grapefruit / 4712 posts
DH knows I am on HB a lot. Sometimes he will say something like " ask your Hellobee ladies. They are like experts right. "
pomelo / 5866 posts
HB is also a verb as in "Why don't you Hellobee it?" Or "Did you Hellobee that?" He thinks it is my encyclopedia and I have to really convince him you are live people.
grapefruit / 4361 posts
Ha, interesting that lots of the DHs tell you to ask the community! Mine knows it's where I get most of my info, and it was so helpful for support during loss and IF. I also share some of the stories with him of some of the more prolific members or funny threads like the grapefruit in one awhile back 
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
I tell him lots from it and if he rolls his eyes, it's in his head because he never seems to think it's silly. He's on Reddit a lot and says it's similar, but less community like, so he gets it.
apricot / 256 posts
Mine hasnt really said anything, though he's really into boats and golf and he is active on boards related to those topics so I think it's kind of the same. He does say what do your internet friends say? sometimes but I think that's somthing he got from me because i started it when he would ask me what I thought about troubleshooting something on the boat.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
He calls it my "mommy forum" - he does not get the draw, at all!
coconut / 8472 posts
He likes it because it means I do the research and learn about stuff and he doesn't have to. Occasionally he'll also tell me I should "ask the moms group".
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
He's supportive haha. He often asks me what 'the hive' thinks, or whether I learned something from Hellobee. Now that I'm an HB blogger, he 'gets' it a little more, too.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
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persimmon / 1183 posts
I've use the term "I'll ask The Bee" once and now he asks me all the time "What do the bees say?" Or "Are you going to ask the hive people?" Lol
Granted I came from Wedding Bee, so he might think it's one in the same.
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