I need your help to make a decision.

So a little backstory, before I had LO#1, I worked pretty much full time out of the house. Technically I worked casually at two different places which both gave me close to full time hours. After I had LO1, I found out my one position was becoming full time and someone with more seniority scooped it up so I was left casual with no guaranteed hours.

I created my own business (not related at all to my bachelors degree) and have been doing some work with that. As of right now that's bringing in a little bit of money but also requires working, obviously. And with kids getting older and more demanding, it's getting really tough to parent and work at the same time. DH works full time out of the house with average pay.

So, my predicament. I recently applied for a job that is full time, related to my degree, not the greatest pay but still ok and they said they are willing to let me start off part time. They are really eager for me to work there and are even trying to find me daycare. So having a 2 year old AND a 5 month old is virtually impossible to find daycare (most do not take children less than 1 year old). Well, yesterday we found a daycare who can accommodate my children, our work hours and everything we need. The cost is decent. Everything looks great.

The problem? I do not want to work away from home BUT I would like to:

a) make more money for our household
b) get my children to interact more with other children
c) just get a break to do my own work at home

So my options are this

1. Work full time, put kids in daycare full time. (Have zero time for my at home business).
2. Work away from home part time (2-3 days/wk). Still look after my kids some, and might have time to do at home business.
3. Put kids in daycare casually (1 day/wk) to focus on at home business, which gives me a break but also gives kids some interaction. But would likely cost our house more $$ unless I can scrounge up more work with my business.

I want to make money as a career woman, but I also want to be a SAHM. Raising my kids is SO important to me but I do see the benefits for them and me to get them/me out of the house. I hope this is clear! It's all such a great opportunity but I HATE making decisions.