Oh my goodness. I need help. My 9.5 month old refused his afternoon nap today. And only slept 45 min for the morning nap. It's too late to try again later, or it'll interfere with bedtime. So now I have a hot mess on my hands. Do I just put him to bed a little earlier? Like how much earlier?

Is this common? He's never refused a nap before; he's been getting harder and harder to put down but he'll eventually sleep, even if it's just for 30-45 minutes. But that didn't even happen today. I'm freaking out!