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What was the most painful part labor and/or birth for you, besides contractions?

  1. macintosh

    pear / 1750 posts

    Pushing was worse than pre-epi contractions. Especially when they would only let me push every other contraction because baby's heart rate was dipping. Then when I was ready to push out I had to wait for the attending and breathe through multiple contractions when my body just wanted to push!

  2. Ginabean3

    pomegranate / 3401 posts

    Epidural and then recovery after labor!

  3. Ms. RV

    pear / 1930 posts

    LO was sunny side up and got stuck and pinched a nerve in my hip. Contractions were nothing compared to that and the epidural did nothing for it.

  4. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    @macintosh: I can't imagine not pushing when I had to! I couldn't control it.

  5. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    Epidural placement for sure both times. They tried 3 times to place it with N and 2 times to place it with E. I ended up needing a blood patch after E to stop the spinal fluid from leaking. It was awful. I was almost certain that I was dying. 🙊

  6. kodybear

    pear / 1616 posts

    Putting in the IV. Apparently my veins have a lot of valves in them so they poked me so many times before they could get it right. I had a huge bruise bc of it after leaving the hospital. Another one is the cervical check. I was about 6-7 cm dilated (no epi yet) and the midwife thought she felt something odd with my amniotic sac and continued to keep reaching up and rubbing it. Turned out to be like a wrinkle in my sac but ouch!

  7. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    All of it? Haha. I'll never forget the contractions but they were definitely worse with pitocin. No breaks in between them, I couldn't breathe well or speak to DH, it was INTENSE. I really wanted didn't want the epidural but I caved by transition and got it in the nick of time at 9cm.

  8. Corduroy

    pomelo / 5258 posts

    LO1: Cervical checks.

    LO2: Saying goodbye to LO1 when I left for the hospital. I didn't know it at the time but I must have been in transition since baby came about 30 min later. Trying to act like I wasn't in incredible pain was rough and I must have done and awful job because LO was bawling.

  9. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    Back labor.

  10. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    Passing his shoulders. But that was nothing compared to contractions. It felt like I was big ripped in half and they were right on top of each other for hours.

  11. MrsGeePerez

    grape / 95 posts

    @youboots: yes the cervical checks were insane! I guess I had a posterior cervix and the doctor couldn't find the opening so she was digging her fingers up there - it took her three tries to find it. Completely stalled my labor because it hurt so bad.

    The epidural hurt and it felt really gross when it went in (and seemed to take so long!) but honestly it was absolutely nothing compared to those pitocin contractions!

  12. wrkbrk

    pomelo / 5084 posts

    @artsyfartsy: 1) arm IV and 2) failed attempt at placing a catheter (nurse had no idea how and ended up having to go get someone else :/)

  13. littleblessings

    pear / 1739 posts

    The stitches I had after LO1. They kept getting caugt no matter what I wore down there. They also didn't dissolve until like 9 weeks.

    With LO2 it was my labor completely stopping and having to be put on pitocin because my water was broke

  14. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    The monitor pushing on my tummy during contractions - ouch! Cervical checks were also super painful for me

  15. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    Nothing was worse than contractions.

  16. Alba4

    nectarine / 2951 posts

    Pushing for an hour was much worse than any contraction.

  17. MrsADS

    nectarine / 2262 posts

    Nothing was worse than ctx bit if I have to pick it would be recovery from my huge episiotomy. I'm 5 months pp and occasionally it still twinges. Sex still hurts.

  18. jlm22

    apricot / 343 posts

    Not going to lie, my csection seems like a walk in a park after reading this thread. Kind of want to thank my baby for being breech after reading this. It hurt to cough and laugh for a few days but it doesn't sound comparable to labor and pushing!

  19. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    Recovery from a third degree tear. Worse than recovering from my cs.

  20. Ms maths

    apricot / 343 posts

    The tearing, and then the waiting for the next contraction with the baby's head in the birth canal after the tear. It felt like I was being torn apart, while being sliced with a million knives, while on fire.

  21. Rockies11

    persimmon / 1363 posts

    Fourth degree tearing + fractured tailbone + manual evacuation of my uterus long after the epi wore off.

  22. Run2shore

    cherry / 100 posts

    Vacuum assist! It was Terrible.

  23. alphagam84

    persimmon / 1095 posts

    My back hurt really bad for 2 days after from the epidural, like one big bruise and it rubbed every time I got in and out of bed at the hospital. I had plenty of pain meds during labor so the contractions were never that bad! I did have antibiotics given due to being strep positive and they were cold so they hurt flowing in and made me shiver. When they went to do the 2nd dose and I said how much it bothered me being cold the nurse said they could just let them come up to room temperature before giving them to me. Not sure why the first nurse didn't do that!!

  24. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    Ring of fire. Worst pain I've ever felt. I let out this horrible animalistic sound....will never forget it

  25. Pumuckl

    pomegranate / 3601 posts

    The ring of fire was very real for me with LO1. (He was born with his hand in his face).

  26. sorrycharlie

    hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts

    the intense contractions with LO1 - my labor was so intense and fast, and they were on top of one another. I got the epi at 10 cm. ha.

    with LO2, honestly the worst was getting the epidural (and that wasn't even bad). the most painful, for me, was the emotional pain when they whisked LO out of the room because she had meconium in her fluid and they couldn't get her to cry. and no one updated me.

  27. MCD919

    kiwi / 659 posts

    The contractions were definitely the worst part for me...

    But there was a moment after the nurse inserted the IV when she squeezed the IV bag really hard and intense pain shot down to the insertion area. Idk why she did that, but it hurt so much I yelled at her... This was before my epidural, so I was definitely not in the nicest frame of mind either

  28. littlejoy

    pomegranate / 3375 posts

    Stitches. I had an unmedicated labor, so they gave me a local for the stitches ... It didn't really work. It was horrible!!!!

  29. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    F-ing catheter. They left it in for like 8 hours. Drove. me. NUTS. But the pain from my herniated disc while pushing was what was really unbearable.

  30. JennyG

    clementine / 912 posts

    DS - Absolutely pitocin contractions!!

    DD - The five tries to get an IV placed hurt only slightly less than the ring of fire. Just kidding, that was terrible.

  31. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @Ms. RV: yeeeeah, it turns out the epidural doesn't touch anything having to do with a pinched nerve. I learned that the hard way, too. I could hardly breathe it hurt so bad.

  32. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @lawbee11: oh gosh, that was horrible, too. The midwife kept twirling the cord and massaging my uterus to get it to come out, and I wanted to throw up. I thought that was supposed to be the easy part!

  33. namaste

    persimmon / 1313 posts

    Cervical checks 😒 I'm still bitter about them. Only one nurse was gentle. The other two shoved their fingers all over the place. It was awful.

  34. GreenThumb

    pear / 1986 posts

    Maybe the foley bulb insertion... I was induced, so I had no idea what was yet to come, but that foley insertion was so bad it almost made me pass out!

  35. JenGirl

    clementine / 756 posts

    Pushing. Holy hell, the pushing.

  36. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    Is it bad that I don't remember anything being bad. My water broke, contractions weren't that bad when I got my epidural, but I wa shaking so hard/bad/cold that I got it. So I don't even remember what contractions felt like. I didn't feel anything pushing and I don't remember recovery being that bad.

  37. mfa_lady

    pomegranate / 3921 posts

    Contractions were the worst for me. They started hard and fast after my water broke and kept coming like that for five hours. I actually felt like I got a break when I was pushing (not WHILE pushing) because I had the longest break in between contractions that I had during the entire labor. I hadn't gone to sleep (water broke right as I'd been getting into bed) and so I was actually dozing off in between pushing contractions.

  38. mrsrain

    nectarine / 2115 posts

    @jlm22: for what it's worth, as bad as the pain of labor was, it was gone pretty much as soon as baby was delivered! My second is due in March, and I'm definitely planning to go sans meds again. But, if there's one thing I learned the first time around, it's that birth hurts, and I will never judge anyone again for their decisions when it comes to handling it!!

  39. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    The epidural never got to this one spot so that one spot was sooo painful the whole time!

  40. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    Contractions. With both of my kids, my labors started with contractions. They're hard to forget when you have to wait hours for an epidural. Also, peeing after labor and delivery is pretty painful. It's worse when you can't and have to be catheterized as a result.

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