Not sure where exactly to put this.......

R is getting baptized on Sunday. So DH's family is coming up. We only have one guest room, so they are all going to stay in a hotel. Note, they live 4 hours away, and haven't seen her beginning of May.

But yesterday morning DH's sister put on FB that she was up all Sunday night with a stomach bug. Then last night put something on about how she finally was able to eat something but that it was going through the whole house ( husband and 2 boys, who are 6 and 3). This morning she posted that about going to the gym. So I guess she is feeling better. Although who knows, she is obsessed with working out.

SMIL texted me yesterday about getting all 6 of them hotels, and I know she knows they are sick cause she is a doctor and send SIL some medicine yesterday.

I talked to DH about it last night, he is out of town, and he agreed that we don't want to take the chance of R getting sick. But he also seemed like he didn't want to tell them to not come. He is afraid that if he tells her to not come, she won't talk to him for awhile. Which honestly she probably would do, as she loves to create drama.

So I told him well maybe you call her on Thursday when you are waiting at the airport and see how they are all doing. I said if anything maybe we just tell them that they can't hold R while they are here.

I am still not comfortable with it. Am I over reacting about not wanting them to come at all? Wondering if I am over reacting cause I really just don't want to deal with his family and the drama, esp his sister, seems to create.