We are still in the "maybe 3" club. We go back and forth and know we have to decide by next summer. I want another spring or early summer baby, so we would have to start trying next summer to have hte kids in a decent age gap.

My hesitations:
1. having enough patience and time to spend with all 3 kids.
2. How to handle activities as they get older since there are only 2 parents and 3 kids to shuffle around.
3. financially it's a big jump for daycare/vacations/activities, ect.
4. if we don't, I'm scared we'll always regret not having "one more" or feeling like our family is not complete.

I feel like because of reason #4, that means we take the jump right and the rest will work itself out?