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So...I hate to say it, but 6m.

3m: the hormonal rage calmed down and I looked OK. Still sleep deprived and baby safety anxiety/paranoia (SIDS for example)
6m: I was in the rhythm of things and so was he. Solids helped.
12m: I feel like I've never had a baby and I feel like I know what I'm doing when it comes to my son.

HUGS.
Honestly? 6 months. I loved being a Mommy but the sleep deprivation, C-section, and transition to being a family of four was really hard. I did end up with some PPD...a lot of it, I think, was because I felt totally alone. People would offer advice, but so much of it didn't apply to me because twins are such a different ballgame in a lot of ways.
Once they started STTN and gave up a few of their daytime feedings, life got waaaaay easier. And now, at 15 months, I can honestly say I'm starting to take time for myself again.

I tried to form my answer before reading the other entries. I have a seven month old, and I think it's only been the last couple months that I've felt human again, not just a constant sleep deprived, stressed out new mom/feed bag.

6 months when I started to wean

9 months when I stopped pumping 24/7. I could finally lose the last 10lbs and felt myself again and now like a cow.

9 months PP and I still don't feel like myself - but my baby isn't a good sleeper.

Wow. Well, my answer is significantly different than the majority of those above but I'd say 8 weeks which corresponds to when my stitches had healed up and my breasts stopped hurting so much from BF'ing. I think part of that was just having a mindset of "things will never be exactly the same and that's OK because there is so much beauty in this new normal."

My body is stretch marked and torn up and will never look like it "should" again for the average 23 year old but I know it's beautiful because it made my son. My sleep will probably always be fitful -- between nursing, teething, random wake ups, night terrors as he gets older, and me being a worried momma who has hopes and dreams for him, I know I will still have trouble sleeping even as he is older! I'll never be able to have the same amount of freedom as I did before BUT I now have a little guy who depends on me and loves me just because I am HIS. And as to the nursing for hours day in and day out -- yes. It was so so so hard but I promise it gets better. My son went from being a 45 minute nurser to being a speed nurser who nursed for 5 minutes every three hours!

Anyways -- that's a long drawn out trail of thoughts but yes, to answer that question I had to do some soul searching. I don't think I will ever feel like my old self again but I do feel like I'm me again and this new me is so much happier in a different way. And it's in ways I could never have imagined!

I had labor with S a year ago and 3 months later got KU again. I never felt 100% myself in that time, despite not even breastfeeding anyone. I was healing from my episiotomy and still flushing out hormones.

I can't wait to feel like me again!

@Danizaur: oh gosh, I didn't feel like myself until well after six weeks. 6 weeks was a marked improvement, but still not 100%

I'm 3 months pp and finally feeling human.

Eta: I also had a cs but that didn't affect how I felt.

I felt more human in stages. I had bits of it when I went back to work. Then I really felt good again at 6 months when she was STTN and everything leveled out. Now, I'm 11 months pp and I really feel like the old me. I wasn't totally there until I lost all the weight. I went through stages of feeling good, then frumpy, then back to good. I think stopping pumping was a huge factor though.

I never truly felt like myself again because I got pregnant when LO was 10-months old.

I had a rough time and while I started to feel like the initial "fog" began to slightly lift earlier on (around 3 months or so when I went back to work), I honestly didn't feel truly like myself until LO was about a year old. I am so sorry to say that, but it was a very hard (but amazing) first year for me.

Around two months. Yes, my life is much different now but LO had stopped eating constantly and was sleeping better, I was pretty much back to pp weight and I felt like I was out of survival mode.

I hurt down there for at least two weeks. I felt like I got into a BF groove by 4 weeks and was feeling pretty good and like I had things under control by about 6-8 weeks. I was also getting good sleep at that point too, which was huge. Naps were my best friend. Felt like myself as in wearing clothes that made me feel good and feeling like everything is normal? Almost two years.

I think it took about 2 months for my body to feel "normal." Obviously more fluffy but no more weird soreness/pains/etc. Felt ok to wear jeans again, etc.

I think it'll probably be a year though. I still do have the extra weight, and the PP hair loss and hormones drive me CRAZY. I think the BF will take a while to get "'normal" too. I pumped for 3 months and let's just say I was glad to quit!

It really does get better (more towards "normal") every day though.

I'm 8 months out and still don't feel normal.

Physically I look normal. I don't feel like I was ever pregnant. But I am still trying to recover from delivery and I'm dealing with some pp blues that I need to work through. I can't wait until I feel like myself again.

I feel like it came in waves and with it came acceptance of a new kind of "normal". I did start seeing major improvements around the four month mark when I went back to work. I'm a work horse and I need to work!

It's been in stages for me. At 4ish weeks, I was like "Yes!! I am me again!" Body recovered, breast feeding established, adjusting to new sleep patterns, beginning to fit into old clothes.
At 4 months, it was time to go back to work and that set me back. 4-9 months were a struggle because I wasn't my "work" self and F is a really poor sleeper.
When I stopped pumping at 12 months, that's when I really felt like I was who I was before pregnancy.
F is closing in on 18 months and I'm sure I'll look back and think "oh you fool, things weren't the way they used to be".

8-9 months for me. It was a variety of factors though from WW to marriage counseling.