I would have thought at 9 months pp I would be getting better at dealing with things, but actually I'm just getting more forgetful and making more mistakes!!

I just realised that I booked our flights in the wrong name...my married name instead of my maiden name (which my passport is still in) and had to shell out to change them

That's one of many stupid things I've done recently...when will it end? Or at least when will I get better at dealing with it?!!