Help! My 19.5 month old has been really fussy about eating the past month. It started when we were on vacation a month ago and hasn't really gotten much better since we've been back. She used to be a really good eater and would eat at least 6-8oz of food at each meal.

For the past 2 days, she's barely eaten anything. In the morning, she has eaten ~2 oz of yogurt, she barely touches her lunch at daycare (maybe 1-2 oz of blueberries and 2 bites of pasta) and then for dinner I might be able to get her to eat 2 bites of veggies and fish. I've been trying to make all her favorite things but she is refusing to really eat anything.

For reference, she is on the skinny side -- she was 5th percentile at her 18 month appointment (18 lbs) but she hasn't gained any weight in the past 6 weeks or so. She has lost ~6 oz in the past 2-3 days. I've been trying to make sure that the 2 bites she will eat are as nutritious and calorie packed as possible but I'm starting to get worried!

I don't want to make eating a chore for her so I try not to make her mad if I am offering her the food, but she gets super mad if I put something in front of her and she doesn't want it.

Will toddlers starve themselves or will they eventually eat?