I agree the thought of getting in touch with my child at any time is nice... But we did without it just fine when I was a kid!!

I am unsure on this one. I'd be fine with a basic flip style phone (not a smart phone) around 10-12, and a smartphone at say 16(or when they can pay for it). But I do sympathize with the fact that more than likely my kid would be the only kid without a smartphone... Idk why that upsets me! But I don't think I'm comfortable with a Pre teen having smart phone and access to Internet 24/7