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It's a different kind of love. As much as I want to say both equally, it's a given we love our son more than each other. It's a unspoken given. Well in our case anyway.

I feel really strongly that my husband comes first.

On the one hand, my husband...because I choose to love him. On the other hand, as my sister once asked, "quick, your baby and your husband are about to get hit by a bus and you can only save one...". I'd save my baby.

Oh gosh, this is hard. I like Corn's (can I call you Corn?) question as a way to think about it. If given time to think it out, I might choose to save the baby (preservation of the next generation, what my husband would want, etc), but in a split second I might save him.

For me, it is a different kind of love. I love my husband because he is my soul mate, he understands me in a way no one else on this earth does. We've overcome huge obstacles to be together.
I love my son in a completely different way. I love him for his innocence and the promise of the future.

I love my husband more but "care" about my baby more. I guess it's because my baby is still so little...Ask me again in a few years.