When we just had Charlie, Bee did a lot more of the parenting tasks... but now that we have two, it's more balanced.

Morning wakeup: I wake up with Charlie and Bee wakes up with Olive. Charlie usually wakes up first; or actually maybe Olive does, but she nurses in the morning and sometimes goes back down.

Getting kids dressed: We divvy this up. If Bee is making breakfast, I will dress both kids. I don't like to dress Olive though, because I have no fashion sense and then she has to be redressed. Lately I've started browsing Bee's Instagram for outfits that Olive has worn in the past, and then I recreate them. What a huge relief that has been for me.

Feeding: We both feed the kids a lot. They're not good eaters, so it takes a lot of energy to feed them. After they're done eating, we often just want to lie down and sleep for a year. Very stressful.

Daycare dropoffs/pickups (if relevant): We both go to dropoff and pickups! Not really time efficient, but it's one of our favorite parts of the day.

Playing/Watching: We both play/watch the kids a lot. On weekends, Bee gets more play time with the kids b/c I'm cooking. On the weekdays, it's the reverse.

Bathtime: I give Charlie his bath, Bee gives Olive her bath (we will switch it up once Olive is weaned)

Bedtime: I put Charlie to bed, Bee puts Olive to bed.

Wakeups: Charlie doesn't wake up that often, but I usually get him back down. Olive woke up a lot more until recently, and Bee always gets her. On the very rare occasion that I get Olive at night, she is NOT happy!!

Who does which parenting tasks?