Just wanted to share the newness of actively TTC (at least it sure feels like it!) with some 2nd timers... are you out there?

I thought I would be more relaxed this time around, but I find myself worrying about the same things (or more) like if I should cut out coffee, making sure to take prenatals, etc. Do I zumba during the TWW? Am I working out too much? Am I drinking/eating well? I guess it doesn't ever end?

My cycles shortened after AF returned after DS too, so that's putting a whole other spin on things! Trying to figure out when to BD, if I O'ed, etc?

(ETA: DS is 21 months, we're shooting for a 2.5-3 year age gap!)