Baby A's sleep has been crap lately. However, in the past few days, she has done much better. One wake up. However, today, she woke up at 5:30am, nursed, and would only sleep on me. I put her down in her crib, she settled for a minute, then began loud fussing. By the time the fussing began, I was back in bed. Previously, DH had come in and kind of stared at me while I held her and then went back to bed. ? So, at 6:30, he gets up and I assume he's going to go rock her (she doesn't usually get up until 8 or so) but instead he turns on the light and decides he's getting her up for the day. Oh, and he leaves our door open, so the light is shining right on my face. There is no chance he's trying to let me sleep. He then takes her in the living room and plops her down so he can go feed the cats, who are whining for breakfast. All I hear is the screech when she's put down because she's TIRED and needs to go to sleep. So I go out there and cuddle her.
DH's logic works like this: "Baby, you won't go back to sleep unless we hold you, so I'm getting you up for the day. You want to be awake? Fine, be awake." He's like an effing two year old. She's NINE MONTHS old. So, of course, I end up rocking her back to sleep and being late for work. He offered, but she cried when I gave her to him. Of course, genius, you're the "Time to get up!" guy.
I don't even know how to talk to him right now. What the hell is wrong with him? She's a BABY. She's not trying to piss you off by not sleeping. Yes, we need to figure her sleep out, but come on, man.
I love him, but I need to figure out a way to talk to him.