double your commute to double your square footage + other features (apartment to house)?

Outside of our city we could afford double the bedrooms, a more modern home, etc...but dh would have a much longer commute. On the plus side, he works 12 hour shifts, so less days that he would have to commute. On the negative side, we'd be further from MIL, who babysits sometimes.

I don't think we'll end up doing it because those long drives on top of 12 hours of work plus overtime makes me nervous...but it is so tempting!