at least 5-10 times this has happened -

my husband will be on bath duty and I hear my son's voice only, kinda solo playing, talking to himself. I walk by the bathroom and see my husband sitting next to the tub, scrolling Facebook.

Each time I have snatched my husbands phone - I just think it's a shitty message to send. Am I over reacting? Like talk to your kid - we both work crazy hours - be present the times you are with him!