My friend and his siblings all went and they loved it! I don't know if I could do it!
My friend and his siblings all went and they loved it! I don't know if I could do it!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Nope! They might go to private school, but our kids will live with us.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
My older brother went to a private high school about 20 mins away and he lived at home. We'd drop him off at 7am and pick him up at 10pm though! He might as well have lived there!
I would consider it if it were a REALLY great school and more than 30 mins from home. And they got a scholarship... haha. Boarding schools are not cheap! I'd have them come home most weekends though-- probably 3 out of 4 weekends a month.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Maybe..MAYBE if she really, really, really wanted to but otherwise, no! I want her home with me as long as possible.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
I don't think so. I have friends that went but I don't really understand it.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
Only if there was some specific reason, like serious obedience issues or something.
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
I think if I lived in a different life, yes. Say we lived in a terrible school district, and our child was really bright and offered a great scholarship to an incredible boarding school. Assuming that this was the BEST option for them to get an excellent education, I would absolutely support that. Fortunately, it's likely that we will live in a good school district, or be able to swing a local private school if we have to.
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
@highwire: I haven't been faced with this so I can't really say for sure, but I don't think I could "send away" our child for behavioral problems. I know people who had this experience, with great outcomes, but I think it would be too hard to pass our struggling child off to an institution - even a great one - and not see them every day.
honeydew / 7589 posts
@mrbee: Haha!
I don't think I would, but since we live overseas, it's possible. If I had a gifted child that I didn't feel I could provide all the advanced education they wanted through homeschool, I would consider it for high school.
My little sister is in a boarding school, a music one. Their orchestra and choir tour the US and Canada, sometimes international. She plays trombone, and it will be great for college scholarships as well.
nectarine / 2886 posts
Yes, for sure. My husband went to boarding school and thought it really taught him how to be independent. I also observed that during my first year of college, the people who went to boarding school were much more prepared academically and were well adjusted in terms of living on their own.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@mrs. wagon: I was just like your brother. A day student at a boarding school (heck it could have been the same one since I'm from the Boston area too!). I was on campus from very early in the morning to pretty late at night most days. I pretty much slept and showered at home. And on the weekends I was either staying at a friends, or had friends staying with me. Where I went to school only about 15% of the students were day students. All of my friends who were boarders loved it. But I will say the majority of them lived within an hour or so of the school so they saw their parents all the time (parents would come to campus to watch games, or the kids went home on the weekends). Honestly I did learn a lot of independence and the education was superior to what I would have received at a public school. I would absolutely consider sending my kids to a boarding school (as a day student or a boarding student) but it would need to be somewhere within easy driving distance of my home.
persimmon / 1453 posts
Sure, if one is relatively nearby and we can hack it financially. I've heard of some boarding schools that provide a really excellent education!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
@MamaMoose: haha! was it a prestigious one that had another location in New Hampshire?
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@mrs. wagon: Haha, nope. It was another ISL school so we played them in sports all the time : ) Your brother is a smarty pants isn't he?!
pomegranate / 3414 posts
This is a HUGE debate in our household. DH went to an all male boarding school that was about 8 hrs from his home from grades 7-12. He insists that if we have any boys they will be going there as well; however I can't fathom allowing my child to be that far from me on an everyday basis. Luckily LO#1 is a girl so I don't have to worry about it but am somewhat worried about LO#2 since we are team green. However, the school is changing and DH doesn't actually agree with their current administration's views/teachings so I may not have to battle this after all.
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