My DH and I are planning to fly to Japan later this year with our 4 year old and 1 year old. My mom will also be joining us. We have 2 options for flights....

- fly non-stop for 12 hours
- or have a connecting flight in Hawaii for 2 hours, so our kids can run around and release some energy (the first flight is 5 hours, and the second flight is 9 hours)

What would you do? Our 1 year old will be a lap infant.