A very dear friend of mine is getting married over Labor Day weekend and I am undecided about whether or not to go. I need to decide ASAP! Help!

My friend lives across the country (2 hour time difference) and DD will be almost 11 months at the time of the wedding. She is still nursing and wakes 1-2x/night. I have never been away from her for longer than a few hours. I could take her with me, but I was worried about the time difference (wedding is 4pm MT and are on EST) and also about hard it would be to travel with her all day (no direct flights). I had decided it was too much and have already told my friend this. Now DH is adamant that I should go, that I never do anything for myself, and that he can take care of the kids. I'm so torn about whether or not I should go! I would still need to pump while I'm gone and it would be cutting it close with the amount of milk I have frozen. I would LOVE to see my friend though, and was really bummed thinking I would miss her big day.

What would you do?