We've been lucky to receive many, many items from friends who have decided they aren't having any more children. Included in this is a pack & play with bassinet, swing, bouncy chair, bath tub, boppy, activity mat, 3 huge bins of clothes, carseat with snap & go stroller, etc. The infant carseat comes from one of my husbands best friends and is about 2 years old, has never been in an accident, etc. Common sense tells me that it is fine to use -- if she had another baby, she would have used it -- but I can't shake the feeling that we need to get a new one.

What are your thoughts?