Sooo I'm in my living room right now listening to my 4.5 month old scream while our awesome babysitter comforts him. I'm scared to leave because he did this last week to another girl and it seemed to really stress her out, which freaked me out.

He NEVER cries with me or my husband. I'm a new SAHM... Could three weeks have already made him this scared of new people?

Also. Family babysitters are not an option anymore. He has been going for 45 minutes straight now. I feel like its unreasonable to expect her to deal with this!!!! Or are babysitters used to this??

help.