There was an earlier thread about spacing for 2, but I was curious what people think is an ideal age gap for 3+. My 2 DS are 22 mos apart, financially I'd like to wait till there would be a 3 year gap between #2 and 3. DH thinks 2 years is ideal. We *may* want 4, and if I knew for sure we would want 4, I think waiting 3+ years and then having the next two as close together as possible would be best. But I don't think we will know for sure about wanting 4 until we see how we do with 3. What are your plans?