Yay or Nay?
ETA: I'm reading a book and there's a female character named Alistair and I was intrigued. Its a form of Alexander but somehow it seems "softer" in nature to me. What do you think?
Yay or Nay?
ETA: I'm reading a book and there's a female character named Alistair and I was intrigued. Its a form of Alexander but somehow it seems "softer" in nature to me. What do you think?
138 votes
nectarine / 2465 posts
I think I've only heard it in the male context so it's hard for me to picture a female with that name!
pomegranate / 3791 posts
No way. There are many names where when I hear them on the gender they're not commonly used on, I get used to it and my brain starts thinking of it as unisex after not too long. Alistair is not one of those names, it would always sound very masculine to me. Sorry. To me it sounds very British (which I like...I just looked it up and apparently it's Scottish but I'm basing it on people I've met with this name) but also very masculine.
nectarine / 2667 posts
I said maybe because, while I don't think it's too masculine, I don't like that spelling.
grapefruit / 4903 posts
Strong dislike on a girl for me. It strikes me more like a girl named Edmund than a girl named Elliot, if that makes sense.
bananas / 9229 posts
If you google the name, it is primarily a masculine name - http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alistair Is there a way to make it seem more feminine? Maybe change the spelling or find something similar?
pomelo / 5678 posts
Names go "considered masculine" to "considered feminine" in US over time- Ashley, for example. I do not think it phonetically sounds masculine, personally- actually feminine if anything, or gender neutral IMO. It reminds me of a nickname for Allison. I also have no known associations with the name, and that probably influences people.
kiwi / 566 posts
@JerricaBenton: I love Aster for a girl!
Not a big fan of Alistair for a girl...though I'm not a big fan of traditionally masculine names on girls of any sort (though if I knew a little girl with a traditionally-masculine name I'm sure it would warm up on me if I loved the kid!).
nectarine / 2085 posts
It reads strongly "Scottish grandfather" to me. Complete with a mustache and beard and a glass of whisky in his hand.
clementine / 928 posts
Thanks guys, just curious!
@Greentea: I agree with you! I have no known associations with anyone named Alistair so to me, it could be feminine. And you're right, there are many names that were once considered blasphemy to use as girls names that are now commonplace and vice versa.
I love the nickname Alice for it too
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