Just pulled out the ring sling yesterday to try with my not-quite-2-week old. I'm not sure I'm doing this right? I have a hard time keeping the fabric spread over my shoulder, and I feel like she should also be higher? But I can't seem to get her any higher because the fabric is already all up in my armpit. Also I have to support her head with my elbow... which is fine actually but is that right for this age?