I’m due in August and have two little ones.... moving, buying a house- working full time - all the good stuff. So anxious on how to adapt when baby comes... a few questions

1) should I wear #3? especially when we are in the apartment going from car to apartment?
recommend your carrier please???

2). Pump. I was thinking about the Willow, wearable one for home and when I return to work in 8-9 months... thoughts, rumors, experiences????

3) 2nd child has pacifier when she sleeps only- should we wean now? I haven’t spoken to the dentist yet....

Anything else I can do to help ease this transition please share....