Does anyone do elf on the shelf? I don't plan on it. The elf freaks me out. Plus he's a total snitch.
Does anyone do elf on the shelf? I don't plan on it. The elf freaks me out. Plus he's a total snitch.
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
I thought about doing it, but it's a lot of work, and Sadie won't understand. Maybe next year when she'll actually get it. My nephews LOVE it, and seeing their excitement makes me want to do it in the future.
pear / 1852 posts
We were gifted one her first Christmas. Last year we moved him a couple times, but she didn't really get it. This year I'm going to do some of the fun, nice ones I've pinned on my board with her. None of the tricky ones till she's older.
http://www.pinterest.com/trottd/holidays-christmas-elf/
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
Yes! We love our Hermy we keep it simple, he moves if I want him to, if I forget I don't sweat it.
persimmon / 1343 posts
I had never heard of it until last year lol. We don't do elf on the shelf either
pomegranate / 3791 posts
I freaking hate Elf on the Shelf. However, my MIL and SIL think it's super great and are those people that post daily FB pics of what the elf is up to. I have a feeling I'm going to get one for Christmas. I'm not really sure how to tell them it's not something our family is doing without sounding like I'm insulting them for doing it.
And I don't get when people (like SIL and MIL) have the elf making all kinds of messes and getting into trouble. If he was sent by Santa to make sure the kid is being good, why is the elf being bad? And I have way too much on my plate already without creating an extra mess every night that I have to clean up the next day.
cantaloupe / 6885 posts
We got one last year for Christmas. We will probably do it but it won't be mega-elaborate every day. I'll probably start out creative and then by December 20th he will be chilling out on the kitchen table or something.
pomegranate / 3872 posts
I think it's cute. Last year DH and hid it for each other every day. It was pretty funny. We'll do the same this year and probably continue that way as long as LO likes it. I don't think I'd do the crazy scenarios and messes but I do admit to collecting miniature accessories to pose her with lol. I don't necessarily care about the story that it's watching over LO but more like just a fun activity.
grapefruit / 4418 posts
Granted our daughter isn't old enough for it yet, we will not be doing it. Sorry to anyone that does it, but we think it's the dumbest thing and don't like the whole idea of telling our child they should behave so they get presents. The whole lying to our kid thing and the bribery that seems to come with the elf just doesn't sit right. But, then again, we are highly considering not even doing Santa with our children, so we might just be no fun!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
@wonderstruck: the elf doesn't HAVE to do bad things, it can do whatever you want, or don't want him/her to do.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I'm not really into it, but my nephews LOVE it, so when he's a little older if E wants him to come we'll probably do it.
But nothing too intricate, because I'm lazy, lol!
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
We have one. He just sorta sits in our tree haha! When she's older we may move it around, may not, who knows. I think it can be whatever you make it!
And am I the only one who grew up with my mom telling me she had a direct line to Santa to tell him about my behavior?? LOL. How is the elf any different?
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
We do it. When my son was little it was a way for my husband and I to amuse each other for a month. Last year though our son got old enough to get the idea and lived hunting for him in the morning. My husband started to get pretty creative too so it was neat. A few backs my son started saying how his elf is coming soon. He talks about it a lit now and tells everyone about it. Its fun to see how his excitementhas grown so yyes we do elf on the shelf and enjoy it
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
We don't, but I would love to, it would be so fun for the kids every day. DH thinks it's creepy though so I doubt we will have an elf in our house.
apple seed / 2 posts
I haven't been wanting to but now my LO told me she's the only one in her class that the elf doesn't visit and doesn't know why. Ughh. SO, I'll be doing it this year but will keep it simple, no bribery, just fun. I saw this cute little door off Etsy (https://www.etsy.com/listing/209606281/christmas-elf-door-wall-or-shelf-decal) might help make this fun for both of us.. Here we go
nectarine / 2028 posts
@wonderstruck: I feel the same way! I taught kindergarten, and had a mother "gift" our class an elf to use one December. She thought she was being so nice, but it meant that 1) I had to pretend he was non-denominational to make sure no one complained and 2) I had to spend time every day after school coming up with a new place for him. As though teachers don't have enough on their plates-keeping up the elf magic/shenanigans in a public school kind of sucked! I decided then and there it wouldn't be something I'd personally do with my kids-it stressed me out! To be fair, though, I am Jewish (my husband celebrates Xmas, though), so I don't have a super close tie to Santa.
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
I also do not like the idea that he's a spy for Santa. I'm a firm believer that you shouldn't threaten your kids with a punishment that you won't follow through on. There is no way that I would end up not getting my son presents for Christmas. Even if he was making naughty choices. If when he is older he complains that he's the only one without the elf I could see me getting it and just having it as a more of a decoration that moves around each night but not using the story that he watches from Santa. Or with any luck this fad will be over by the time he's old enough to know that other kids have this thing. My MIL is super disappointed that we don't want one.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
Not a fan of Elf on the Shelf. We definitely won't be doing it this year as she's way too young to understand it. I'm not a fan of the whole naughty/nice element of Christmas, so we're planning to skip over that entirely (as best we can) even where Santa's involved. There are so many kids who don't get presents on Christmas and it has nothing to do with them being naughty. Christmas is a season of giving and that's what we want to focus on with our LO.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@travellingbee: I agree with the whole using it as a decoration that moves...I could go for that. But yes, let's hope it's a fad that goes away in the next couple of years!
watermelon / 14206 posts
We do it. I just move the location of the Elf for D to find in the morning. No shenanigans, though.
honeydew / 7589 posts
No, no, no, no. We don't do Santa and we don't do threats.
I have seen some really cute set ups on Pinterest though.
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